Bullying, Bitterness and Belonging. Part Three

Hi girls hope your all well! This blog will focus on Bullying, Bitterness and Belonging.
Part Three.
Lets start with Belonging-

Many dictionaries define belonging by a happiness felt in a secure relationship.
We all need a sense of belonging, for in belonging is security and acceptance. Feeling accepted gives you confidence to share your deepest feelings without worry of rejection. And when you belong to God, that security and acceptance can never be taken away.

When you feel alone for whatever reason just remember you belong to God!
Deuteronomy Chapter Thirty-Three Verse Twenty-Seven
The Eternal God is your refuge, and his everlasting arms are under you.

God is supporting you along your path of life, he is there every step you make, every corner you turn, and bump you trip over. He is so involved in your life, sometimes we forget that he knew about us before we were even born. 

Psalm Chapter Seventy-Three Verse Twenty-Four
I still belong to you; you hold my right hand. You guide me with your counsel, leading me to a glorious destiny.

Romans Chapter One Verse Six
You are included among those... who have been called to belong to Jesus Christ.

Only you can be sure if you belong to God or not.
1 John Chapter 2 Verse Three to Five.
We can be sure that we know him if we obey his commandments. If someone claims. 'I know God', but doesn't obey God's Commandments, that person is a liar and is not living in the truth. But those who obey God's word truly show how completely they love him. This is how we know we are living in him. 

Your obedience is a great reflection of your love for God and your belief in him. God understands that we are not perfect so sometimes it's hard to obey him all the time. God looks for your desire to please and obey him!
He looks for your desires, commitments, and your efforts in which you should want to please him daily. 

Christ Jesus promises anyone who belongs to him there will be no condemnation.

Girls! Listen up! 
So when your waiting for a breakthrough, and your at rock bottom, don't give up, keep obeying God's commandments, you belong to him therefore he will come to rescue... He always does and he always will! 
Our amazing almighty creator will pick you up no matter how many times the devil knocks you down! 

Activity: Every morning wake up and tell yourself that you belong to Jesus Christ, praise him and thank him for the goodness in your life. And tell yourself that no child of god will be condemned.

Thank you for reading this blog!
Take Care and God Bless
Jessica xoxo

Bullying, Bitterness and Belonging. Part Two

Hi girls hope your all well! This blog will focus on Bullying, Bitterness and Belonging.
Part Two.
Lets start with Bitterness-
Bitterness comes when you allow anger to control you.

1 Samuel Chapter Thirty Verse Six
David was now in great danger because all his men were very bitter about losing their sons and daughters, and they began to talk of stoning him. But David found strength in the Lord his God.

2 Corinthians Chapter 2 Verse Seven
It is time to forgive and comfort him. Otherwise he may be overcome by discouragement. 

Bitterness comes when other hurt you and you refuse to forgive them. Don't ever stop forgiving and forgetting. Remember that God has forgiven you even though you continue your tendency to sin.
Just as God forgive you without limit, you should forgive others without counting how many times. Yes forgiveness isn't cheap. The hard work of real forgiveness reveals a love that is tough but lasting.

Luke Chapter Twenty-Three Verse Thirty-Four.
Jesus said ''Father, forgive them, for they don't know what they are doing.''
If we don't forgive others, how can we expect God and others to forgive us?

Matthew Chapter Five Verse Thirty-eight
''Here's another old saying that deserves a second look: Eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth. Is that going to get us anywhere? Here's what I propose: 'Don't hit back at all. 'If someone strikes you, stand there and take it. If someone drags you into court and sues for the shirt off your back, giftwrap your best coat and make a present of it. And if someone takes unfair advantage of you, use the occasion to practice the servant life. No more tit-for-tat stuff. Live Generously.

[The Message Remix] Translations are used throughout this blog.

If we don't forgive others this leads to unresolved bitterness, which then leads to hatred, anger, jealousy, and revenge. It can keep you from communicating to God and others and it can blind you from noticing God's blessings. This isn't the right way to live. 

The antidote to bitterness is simply forgiveness. It will unburden you and cancel any debts and unchain you from unresolved feelings such as anger and frustration.

God promises to forgive you
Colossians Chapter Three Verse Thirteen.

Don't Forget That!

Thank you for reading Part Two of the Bullying, Bitterness and Belonging Blog. Take Care and God Bless Girls
Jessica xoxo

Bullying, Bitterness and Belonging. Part One

Hi girls hope your all well! 
This blog will focus on Bullying, Bitterness and Belonging. 

Part One

Lets start with Bullying-                                                                                         

Sadly many girls from a young age are bullied and a minority of these girls take there own life in attempt to escape this problem. This has got to be put to a stop! Girls are a major target for bullies as the bullies think girls are vulnerable and weaker and less capable of winning, I personally think this is a load of baloney! 

As girls we need to fight! 

Whether it be a bully making everyone laugh at you or a bully personally attacking you and threatening you - It is wrong!

Daughters of the Lord are protected and you need to realize you're not worthless and in fact you are all daughters of god, and even though you can forget for a moment that your not on your own, you have The Lord watching over you,bullying is the work of the devil when you trust people and they hurt you this is the devil trying to say, look you can't even trust your friends, how could you trust a being who's letting you down! That's when you have to become warriors and fight! 

We need to get our spirit swords out and fight back to the devil and say no I won't be treat like this, I was created in the image of our Heavenly Father and I will not be defeated! 

I will forgive the bully, as it's good for my soul and it's harder than you think forgiving someone who hasn't asked for forgiveness, but that is what god wants his children to do.

Forgiveness is not a feeling - it's a decision we make because we want to do what's right before God. It's a quality decision that won't be easy and it may take time to get through the process, depending on the severity of the offense.

Joyce Meyer

Bullying makes people alone and vulnerable, we were created as daughters of god, not perfectly strong people who don't need help... we were created to be imperfect worshipers of Christ Jesus! He loves us even though we aren't perfect. 

The definition of perfection is something or someone that has no defects. By my understanding the only perfect being is God himself. 

God is love, hope, joy, protective, providing, pure, gentle, courageous, compassionate, light, holy, abundant, salvation, creative, life giver... and so much more! He is risen, the almighty God in which he loves you!

So if you are struggling with a bullying situation just remember Jesus died for you so you could live a free and joyous life! He loves you and you are no alone!

Activity: Instead of acting on your own in a tough situation, pray! Pray like you've never prayed before! Instead of asking for god to fix everything, try asking god for the patience and understanding of how you can fix things. He gave you free will and you need explore that free will with God's help and guidance. 

I found this informing video on Youtube recently and thought I'd share it with you. It's not my video but gives a really amazing message to everyone regarding bulling. 

Click here to watch the video...

Thank you for reading Part one of the Bullying, Bitterness and Belonging Blog.

Take Care and God Bless Girls

Jessica xoxo